Our words carry enormous weight. More than sometimes we think. They often influence people for decades, giving either the courage to carry on or one more reason to give up.
When you are responding to any situation, always think before you speak. Instead of focusing on the negatives, highlight the good things they have done. Even if you have a mediocre member at home or work, never belittle or berate them. Be firm, but respectful and allow them some time to explain.
Always remember, your words reflect what is in you. So empower your language by consciously choosing positive words.
“Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny.”– Gandhi “
Words can break you or heal you. It’s totally depends on you how you use them. Your words can make someone happy and made someone sad. Words are actually weapon. A weapon which can mentally injured a person. Words can mentally disturb the person.
It’s entirely up to you how you choose the words. I’ve seen a lot of people discourage others. I personally feel that if you can’t say a word in favor of someone, you have no right to discourage them. You never know how your words will affect others. You say something bad and forget. But you don’t know how those words affected that person. That person may not forget these words forever. We must choose words wisely. It is very easy to discourage others. But when these things happen to us, then we understand how bad that person must have felt at that time.
Nowadays I have seen a lot of people commenting on the health, wealth, family and even everything of others. People have a problem why she is wearing this dress. O silly people! It’s entirely up to her to decide what she wants to wear. You don’t have right to comment on people’s dressing . It is not necessary that other people hate the things you hate. Maybe they like that things. Instead of commenting on other people and wasting time, do something useful that will help you in the future. There is no point in discouraging others. It is easy to discourage others but very difficult to motivates others. I personally feel that is why most people choose to discourage others .
I have seen many times when someone do something, instead of appreciating them, they says it’s easy everyone can do this. You have done nothing. O silly! if everyone can do this then why you have not do this yet ? If you have not done this yet that means you can not do this .
By choosing right words you can make someone happy without spending any money. It’s an easy way of making people happy.
Stop taking interest in others life. Focus on your life it will be better for you.
Thanks for your precious time.
